Is Bad Relationship Is Better Than None ?

 

There are many questions like "Why do people feel that having a bad relationship is better than having no relationship?

Why do people in poor relationships, when asked why they don't leave, say, 'but I love him/her'?

Because this is how we were brought up , to believe that the goal in life , the only goal is to get a mate and live the fairy tale of happily ever after.

If we don't make a success of this fairy tale , surely we must be failures. For in the fairy tale the couple only wears a smile when they are riding off into the sunset together.

"So we are told that this is the goal, the image we must attain in order to be successful, happy, and normal! We don't understand that true love can only exist if we are patient and have a healthy attitude towards it. We desperately become attached ,even addicted to our mates, creating a false sense of 'urgency' and 'need'. This is false love."

If that is false love, what is true love?

Mimi Tanner Says, "In TRUE love, your priority is to develop yourself first. You give each other room to grow, and you support each other's goals. You have separate interests, different friends, and meaningful relationships with friends and family members outside of each other. You feel secure in your own value and worth without the other person's validation. You trust your partner and are committed to each other and to the relationship.

You willingly and lovingly compromise and negotiate any issues that may arise. You accept totally the other person, just as they are, and you embrace their individuality.

According to,Tigress Luv, author of "How to Stop Your Breakup", "You do not take ownership of each other's issues, nor look toward your partner to fix your issues. You show support for your partner, yet you do not attempt to change, alter, or force your opinions onto them. You enjoy their company, yet also are content with being alone.

"True love relationships rarely end, but if they do, you genuinely wish your partner well and happy. Although you want the relationship to last forever, you are healthy enough to understand that nothing lasts forever."

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